Kenya recorded 127 femicide cases in 2024, marking the highest number in recent years and triggering national concern. In response to the growing crisis, Journalists for Human Rights (JHR) held a forum in Nairobi to examine the role of masculinity in gender-based violence and femicide. The discussion highlighted how societal norms, emotional distress, and an often dismissive justice system contribute to violent outcomes.
During the forum, men shared personal experiences of domestic struggles, revealing how traditional expectations of masculinity can prevent them from expressing vulnerability or seeking help. Many attendees argued that men are often overlooked as victims in abusive relationships. Some cited cases where they were physically harmed by partners but received little support from authorities. Others pointed to the justice system’s perceived bias, saying law enforcement rarely takes male complaints seriously, reinforcing frustrations that can lead to violence.
One participant described how his wife became physically aggressive, making him fearful of returning home. Another, an elderly man reliant on a walking stick, recounted being mistreated by his wife and children after losing his job. Despite reporting the abuse, he found no assistance. These stories highlighted the emotional and psychological toll on men and the need for support systems.
Experts at the forum stressed that addressing toxic masculinity is key to reducing femicide. They noted that men are often conditioned to equate strength with dominance, making it difficult for them to seek help or express emotions in healthy ways. The discussion emphasized the need for men to have safe spaces for open dialogue, counselling, and conflict-resolution strategies.
The forum concluded with a call for men to take an active role in combating gender-based violence by challenging harmful societal expectations. Participants agreed that fostering healthy masculinity, encouraging open conversations, and seeking early intervention can help prevent violence and promote healthier relationships.
